After a certain age we make our own life with our own hands.
We all live our lives. We do things to make ourselves happy. That happiness may
come directly because something good just happened to ourselves or may come
indirectly by seeing some loved one happy. In our life our actions
have some consequences on the universe which gradually cascade to our personal life. These
little emotions are stored in our minds forever. We can remember and feel them
whenever we really want to. I still remember the feeling of holding my first
paycheck in my hands, Oh God! The feeling was incredible. And I am very sure
that you must also have such memorable moments that you want to live over and
over again.
But have you ever thought what would it fell like to live
someone else’s life? Have you ever thought that how would it actually feel to experience
the memories of other people? I really fantasize about it. Just imagine, if
humans had the capability to see the world from the perspective of other
people, the world would have been different. We would have been capable of
understanding each other better and hence behaving accordingly. Things would
have been smooth that way.
Anyways, I don’t wish to throw a psychology lesson today but
I want to share one item out of my wish list. The things that I would like to
feel if we had the ability to experience the feelings of other people exactly
in the same manner that they did:
·
How my mother felt when I came into this world.
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How my father felt on holding me in his arms for
the very first time.
·
How my parents felt when I broke my shoulder and
got plastered for the very first time.
·
How my parents felt when they sent me to school
for the very first time.
· How my father felt when I boarded a wrong bus
from school and was lost.
·
How my parents felt when I sang a group song in
the school annual day function for the first time.
·
How my father felt when I failed in a subject
and my teacher gave him a warning that his son was not doing good in class.
·
How my mother felt in all those sleepless nights
when I had migraine pain.
·
How my father felt when he left me in the hostel
for the first time and went back home alone.
·
How my girlfriend felt when I proposed to her.
·
How my girlfriend felt when I told her that I
wanted to marry her and be with her forever.
·
How my parents and bhaiya felt when I got my first job.
·
How my parents felt when I moved to Chennai for
my job.
·
How my girlfriend felt when I moved to Chennai and
got too busy in my new world that was not able to give enough time to her.
·
How my little sister and parents felt when I got
them presents from my first salary.
·
How my parents, bhaiya and girlfriend felt when I got a new job in Gurgaon and was
coming near home.
Oh God! Only if I would have been able to experience these
feelings… Life would have been so fulfilled…
Please comment what is
that you want to feel from someone else’s life!
by Ambuj
