Feel the Feelings

After a certain age we make our own life with our own hands. We all live our lives. We do things to make ourselves happy. That happiness may come directly because something good just happened to ourselves or may come indirectly by seeing some loved one happy. In our life our actions have some consequences on the universe which gradually cascade to our personal life. These little emotions are stored in our minds forever. We can remember and feel them whenever we really want to. I still remember the feeling of holding my first paycheck in my hands, Oh God! The feeling was incredible. And I am very sure that you must also have such memorable moments that you want to live over and over again.

But have you ever thought what would it fell like to live someone else’s life? Have you ever thought that how would it actually feel to experience the memories of other people? I really fantasize about it. Just imagine, if humans had the capability to see the world from the perspective of other people, the world would have been different. We would have been capable of understanding each other better and hence behaving accordingly. Things would have been smooth that way.

Anyways, I don’t wish to throw a psychology lesson today but I want to share one item out of my wish list. The things that I would like to feel if we had the ability to experience the feelings of other people exactly in the same manner that they did:

·         How my mother felt when I came into this world.

·         How my father felt on holding me in his arms for the very first time.

·         How my parents felt when I broke my shoulder and got plastered for the very first time.

·         How my parents felt when they sent me to school for the very first time.

·        How my father felt when I boarded a wrong bus from school and was lost.

·         How my parents felt when I sang a group song in the school annual day function for the first time.

·         How my father felt when I failed in a subject and my teacher gave him a warning that his son was not doing good in class.

·         How my mother felt in all those sleepless nights when I had migraine pain.

·         How my father felt when he left me in the hostel for the first time and went back home alone.

·         How my girlfriend felt when I proposed to her.

·         How my girlfriend felt when I told her that I wanted to marry her and be with her forever.

·         How my parents and bhaiya felt when I got my first job.

·         How my parents felt when I moved to Chennai for my job.

·         How my girlfriend felt when I moved to Chennai and got too busy in my new world that was not able to give enough time to her.

·         How my little sister and parents felt when I got them presents from my first salary.

·         How my parents, bhaiya and girlfriend felt when I got a new job in Gurgaon and was coming near home.

       

      Oh God! Only if I would have been able to experience these feelings… Life would have been so fulfilled…

Please comment what is that you want to feel from someone else’s life!

by Ambuj